Spilling the Bean

BigSisterShirtW A lot of my family lives nearby. So, when the time came to let everyone in on our baby news, I let my kids concoct a plan for spilling the beans. Charlotte and Elijah discussed their ideas for several days before deciding their scheme.

This was the plan:

Elijah was to make Charlotte a “Big Sister” shirt to wear at the Mother’s Day party, after the swimming was done. Very curious. Charlotte was to draw up a mysterious note for Granny announcing our news. The note would distract Granny from noticing the “Big Sister” shirt at first.

Then, when Granny looked up after reading her note, any confusion would be quickly dispelled when she saw Charlotte’s shirt. Charlotte, a big sister?

In the end, the reveal went down perfectly as planned. Though I think the giggling may have given away as much as the tee shirt and the creatively-spelled letter did. While Granny was reading, my older brother Matt said, “Hey Charlotte, what’s up with your shirt?” It wasn’t long before the whole crew caught on. Mystery solved. Like a good episode of Scooby Doo.

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Here is Charlotte’s note. On the envelope is a picture of Red Riding Hood on her way to Granny’s house with an idea to share. Awesome. The note inside translates to, “This is how many people are in my family — 5. No really. I love you Granny, so much.”

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Elijah made the purple “Big Sister” shirt by himself. (I had made a similar shirt for him to wear when he met Charlotte in the hospital for the first time. I’ll try to track down the photos. He was very proud of that shirt.)

It’s a miracle my leather couch is still intact. My mom stopped by the afternoon Elijah was prepping the letters, so he ran upstairs to finish his work without her glimpsing it. Later, I discovered him kneeling in front of the couch, running sharp scissors along the smooth leather cushions to cut out each letter. “Whoa, hey, what’s going on up here!?” To his credit, he was properly penitent. I think he said something like, “You’re right. What was I thinking?” Or did he argue first? I can’t remember.

It was fun to watch these kids hatch out a plan together. I figure they are old enough to remember a lot of this experience — why not get them involved. A 14-year-old, a 6-year-old, and a newborn. It’s going to be an interesting dynamic.

Oh! I have to tell you Elijah’s response when we first told him about the baby. This is classic — especially considering his age and his commensurate understanding of the subject. I asked him how he felt about the news and he replied, “I’m surprised… I’m excited… And I’m a bit alarmed.”


49 Comments

  1. i love the t-shirt idea! and the 14 year old ‘and i’m a bit alarmed!’ bless him! lol, congrats!

  2. This is all just so awesome – you must have an amazing family, thank you for sharing all this – gives me warm cozies!

  3. Oh Elijah, too funny! I love Charlotte’s artwork…I miss those kids (and you guys too)!! And a BABY!! Wow! Congrats Heather and Isaac! So happy for you! 😀

  4. Love Elijah’s response. When my middle child (of 3) was learning about the “birds and the bees”, he said…Oh mom, I cant believe you did THAT 3 times!

  5. Congratulations to you and your family! What a cute idea the kids came up with…they must be really excited. Nancy in SO Cal

  6. Congratulations! I love how creative your kiddos were! Having another baby gives you the perfect excuse to make adorable baby items and use yummy baby fabrics. What a blessing all around!

  7. oh my goodness I missed the baby news! congratulations! how exciting!!!!!!!! and I love your son’s reaction – priceless. Keep that one for his 21st party!
    corrie:)

  8. Congratulations! I have a ten year spread between by oldest and youngest (currently 19, 17 and 9 years old). My oldest, a daughter, had a similar reaction when we first told her. Then, she went on her 4th grade class field trip (to the state fair) the day her little sister was born. When she came home, we were a family of five. She had to write a short paper about that day for school and she went on and on about the fair but not one word about her mother giving birth while she was riding the ferris wheel. I’ll put that in someone’s baby book, not sure whose yet!

  9. So very happy to read your great news!!
    Its so special! I had a similar history ending up
    With 2 boys 6 years apart-they were great
    Together!!
    Ps-my book post
    If someone is recommending Sandra Dallas
    Then consider the reader!:-)
    The Persian Pickle Club is the best of hers!!
    Persian pickle is the name of a fabric
    In the book- quilt anyone???
    A Vintage Affair by Isobel Wolff
    The Dressmaker by Elizabeth Oberbeck
    And Meg Cabot’s Queen of Babble Series
    About Art Fashion History/Designer Lizzie!!
    Also loved Charlotte Collinsand downloaded
    Maria Lucas by Jennifer Becton onto my
    Kindle. Stephanie Plum is a great character.
    She always wanted to be a superhero also
    Sara Donati, Diana Gabaldon have great series
    Of wonderful intelligent fiction then a new
    Series I also loved by Deborah Harkness,
    With the first book, a Discovery of Witches
    Published this year-could not put that one down!
    ( this is not about evil witches by the way and
    NEVer thought I would read a book with a
    Vampire in it!!
    Posted by: Lori | June 13, 2011 at 10:57 PM

  10. That’s a great response, and the type of response that makes me feel good for future responsibility.
    The shirt idea is really cool. I’m glad that they had fun sharing the news.

  11. Elijah had the same response I had when I learned my younger sister, who has never really wanted children, was pregnant. She’s having a girl at the end of August, and now I’m a little more used to it! 😉 Congrats, Heather! I hope it’s a smooth ride! 😉

  12. How exciting for you and your family. Congratulations. I love what your kids did with Grannie and I love your son’s response to the new baby.

  13. oh! I missed your baby news – because I was in hospital having a baby! We called him Elijah 🙂
    congratulations! your kids are just gorgeous.

  14. COngratualtions! I have loved your fabric for awhile now and I just found your blog! I shared your site and blog with my readers today on my Friday finds…at SugarFoot Designs…hope thats ok.

  15. Congratulations! We welcomed our own baby boy in December and his 6 yr big sis and 8 yr old big brother couldnn’t have been more thrilled! Although they didn’t do the announcing, we did let them name the baby (we just 3 wks to go we figured he needed a name!). I think Charlie (Charles Thomas) will be happy with his name & he’ll never have to let on that his middle name is after a train!
    Hope the last couple months of your pregnancy go smoothly!

  16. so so happy for you and your entire family! my own daughter’s family has a 13 year old and 5 year old sisters, so it goes and life is great!! Congratulations and many blessings

  17. I have been following you for some time! Sounds like there will be lots of love to give, as your children sound great! I hope they get to enjoy him as much as you, lots of memories! Wow, you will really be busy now!

  18. Love the patriotic fun on your latest post, but no ability to comment! I’m hoping to finally get some trash ties for my daughter soon. At 6 years old she still has baby fine hair, but I hope these trash ties will give us the ability to ‘create’ with it!

  19. Yay Baileys! Congratulations! Heather, when is your little boy due in August? I’m pregnant also, with a little girl, and due on the 18th! SO happy to hear your news – miss you guys, and hope everyone’s doing well. -Linds

  20. Congrats! I recently (unexpectedly) discovered that I’m “in the family way” and I think my hub’s response was about the same as your son’s!

  21. Oh how adorable. I never did anything clever to announce but my son did have a Big Brother tshirt that he just loved. He wore that ALL the time. Has your daughter taken hers off yet? LOL It’s such fun to watch how excited they get and Elijah’s response to your question is just adorable. Love it. Too cute.

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