While I've had some exposure in my life to the inadequacies of the english language, it is confirmed for me this week that words can never match the depth of feeling our souls experience in times of great joy and great sorrow. The phrases, "words can't describe" or "there aren't words” can be seen as lack of trying. That is, until you have been there, reaching for words that don’t exist.
Great blessings and great trials stir up the recesses of our souls, making us experience something new, something quite inexpressible: the singular moment when you know what you must do next, after weeks of confusion and indecision; the sparkle of love and utter trust in your child’s eyes while you tickle him into the hiccups; the awe and reverence I myself have felt this week witnessing my friends, Jori and Dwight Udall, maneuver through the darkest nightmare with light and love, taking every opportunity to testify that they know they will be with their son again, and that he is now whole and well, calming and reassuring family, friends, and the community at large. What strength of spirit this generosity requires, I can only imagine. Heaven knows, I would be tucked away in a private corner, crumpled in on myself.
I am incredibly moved. And grateful to call them friends.
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More information in this previous post. And at CJUdall.org.
If we trust in God he can provide amazing strength in times of need. I’ve thought and prayed for your friends this week….
Thanks, Lisa. I feel very uplifted this week despite the challenges—or perhaps, in light of them. xo—Heather
Faith is the strength by which a shattered world shall emerge into the light. – Helen Keller
Kerry, you are the best. I don’t know how you get so much done—and still comment as much as you do. You are super generous. Thank you for this great quote. If anyone knows how to defeat a challenge it’s Helen Keller. xo—Heather
I just read about CJ; what a sweet kid. I’m sure he will be missed by the masses.
Thank you, Ellen.
Thank you for sharing such kind thoughts about Dwight and Jori. Today was a great celebration following an unbelievable event. I am Dwight’s older sister and I really enjoyed meeting you and your family today. It is a blessing to know that my brother and his family are surrounded by a great ward group of friends.
Mary Ann! It was a true pleasure to meet you as well. Thank you for introducing yourself. I would love to get to know you more. All my love to you and your family. —Heather
Oh my Heather! That is so sad! Everything else seems so minuscule when you hear something like this!I will keep this family in my thoughts!
TC Sangeeta